On my own is the plan, but it turns out that every summer a friend and her H go at the end of June as well, so if our trips overlap we may be able to meet up. I have never done a trip on my own, but I'll be able to do exactly what I want, when I want, and not have to worry about whether someone else is bored or wants to do something different. If my grandma can do it, I can do it
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final