I guess one question to ask yourself is - why did you choose a long-distance relationship? Was it comforting to know you had this guy tucked away at home, while you were out doing your thing? I ask because, after my divorce, I had a long-distance relationship with a man that I only saw for a weekend every couple of months (although we chatted daily online). At the time, it was perfect - I was in the middle of my divorce, I had a lot on my plate, and this was a man who didn't demand anything of me - I'd just go see him when I wanted (he never came to me). I never had to worry about changing my plans for him, or coming home from work in time to have dinner with him, or any of the normal compromises you make in a real day-to-day relationship. I could focus on my work, and my divorce, without any of the normal demands of a relationship.
Of course, once I started to be available for MORE - he wasn't, because he's a Love Avoidant type.
