Sorry, I meant stay neutral on the impression he had about your M and where that came from. Not good, not bad, just interesting.

About being friends with him or not, you'll figure that out as time goes on. It'll work or it won't.

By "us" do you mean you and W along with him?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss