We all know who the real asshat is here!! LOL looking at that direction over thar
Love me even but she only wants to listen to what her father says about me. Again, this tells me that she is using this as a rationalization for wanting out. A reason when she can't find a real reason she should feel the way she does.
Wow...are you saying that you can read W's mind??! Are you absolutely sure about that ^^? What 'proof' do you have to pin that so-called analysis on here??!
Rationalizations Reasons Excuses
How about this: This is how W is really, truly feeling at this moment? IT IS WHAT IT IS. Get that drilled on your forehead.
It sounds like you are expecting Florence Nightingdale to show up at at time. How's that helping you move forward if you keep looking for Florence? That door ain't opening up anytime soon.
Once again...stop assigning "blame" on FIL for W's mess. Substitute 'Oreo' for FIL and you'll see how silly it would be if you blame Oreo for W's problems. Why would it be any different for FIL?
For once, I'd love to hear some positive stuff that YOU do for YOURSELF instead of a litany of what your W does or does not do or a litany of WhateverTheBestHusband stuff.
Oh and your job choice? You are your own prisoner. You can always choose again. Take a different job if you want to help yourself and DDs financially. When there's a will, you make stuff happen.