Holy cannoli, it's SD. Happy belated birthday, and how the heck ARE you?
Self imposed celibacy isn't a bad thing... at least it hasn't been for me. I get some clarity and ability to focus on other things. Hope it's true for you too!
Hugs,
Bets
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."