I know that. It's just hard because I still love her and want my marriage to work.
Well...
I want it to work too, as long as it is emotionally healthy for you AND the kids to be in....
DO NOT sell yourself, just to say that you are still married...
No one interaction will either make your marriage, or break your marriage at this point...
Although...IF, one day she happens to look back at this and wonder what kind of Man that you are, and Father that you are....
What would YOU want to think if you were in her shoes ????
Be the person today, that you want your kids' memory to be about....
If I were you, I would check in your state, to see if you can file a temporary custody order in the juvenile court system, without having to file for a Divorce...
THAT would be my first step.....
Leaving the schidt-storm that is called your marriage right now....out of it....
