the money issue here... h got an inheritance from his mom. It is in his name only. It has a substantial amount of money in it. I asked h for half of that. He agreed. This money was/is our safety net. its there to pay excess bills or unplanned expenses or to be used for our future is what I thought!
h is not legally obligated to give me this money since it is in his name only.
My L thinks if I push too hard for more support that h will pull the offer off the table. H will continue to pay D's child support forever( 2,000) month.
What I don't like about it is that if the sole account split out half. H still has his salary which is 4x's what I could make at best working full time...Told h I want to be on equal footing with him. His expenses go down and mine go up.
Told him I don't want to be greedy here but he holds all the cards.
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13
