I hope you keep posting too - it's still good for support and you'll need it since you have children and will have contact with your MLC'er. I'm letting go of the rope too Praying. I have not shut the door but I wouldn't call it standing either. I'm rebuilding without him and discovering there's a whole world out there. I felt kind of weird about posting here since he divorced me and this is a divorce busting site but it doesn't change the fact that he's in MLC and the people here are the only ones that understand. hope to hear from you
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs