That is pretty much the perspective that I have taken. However, sometimes I wonder if I just should have said no thanks and passed on getting together with him and establishing a cross-over friend with my wife.
Did your comment refer to the impression that this person had after speaking with my wife or the fact that I even met him to begin with?
For what its worth, he invited "us" to go again today. I am going after work but am now in a somewhat awkward situation.
Me:38 W:39 No Children BD: 5/13 EA/PA Confirmed: 7/13 W Moved out 12/13