Wife doesn't feel it... (Part 2)

[Corbean]

So I need more advice. Just talked to a L and in order to get the kids back here I will have to file for Divorce to get the order in. This will either force her to come back to our local area and live with the kids or give up custody to me so she can stay at her parents house with the OM 5 hours away. I plan to offer her the option of just letting me take the kids so she can get on her feet so that I can avoid filing, but I'm sure she will say no. I don't know what to do.