Originally Posted By: claire7

I'm starting to be ready to be done with him. Despite all my noticeable changes (ones that he has complimented me on), he has not changed much at all, and still shows zero interest in being my H. Why am I still wearing my wedding ring? Why have I not insisted that he take all his books out of our home? Why don't I start dating? Right now, I don't know. Right now he does not appeal to me, and I'm having trouble remembering why I loved him in the first place.

Really think about this and don't be afraid of the answer. Let go of what you think you "should" feel.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss