I keep forgetting things until I post. I need to write them in Word, and once I'm done with writing, save it and hang on to it for the day.
I had told H that if I was going to sleep with other people, (after asking why he cared) he had no say in it but that any men, of course, were not going to be around our daughter.
That is my button pushing. I have to stop it. It's not helping. Laurie, my DB coach, said to think about what I'm about to say before I say it. However, when he hurts me, I forget everything in my hurt an anger. This is why I have a DB coach, and anger management counselor and am going to divorce care. I need tools to deal with it versus lashing out. He does as well, but I can only change me and hope he sees the positive changes.
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?
