Left Behind Newlywed

[Pluto]

Thanks Jenn - I was just driving home from my hockey game (lots of fun, glad I decided to go) and thinking all sorts of stuff. Singing along to the music might have helped - I'll give that a try next time.

I was actually going to come on here and post that I think I'm unraveling. I'm worried that my resentment for how W has treated me these past few months and how much pain she's inflicted with her selfish decisions is now drowning out any love I feel/felt for her.

I'm at a cross-roads where I don't think there's any hope left, and even if there was, I'm not sure I even want her back.

Earlier today I discovered through a mutual friend that OM has changed his relationship status to 'In a Relationship with W' - At the same time, W has hidden her relationship status from her friends. The end result is, if anyone is friends with both OM and W, they can see on his profile that they're in a relationship... but not hers.

Is this part of the WAW's plan B? If things with OM were to fall apart, she wouldn't have to explain to any of her friends/family about OM. I'm pretty disgusted by this - especially when most people don't know even know we're considered separated.

I've resolved to remove all of our photos together from the house, put them in storage boxes in the basement. I'm also really tempted to change my status on facebook to separated - but that would be a method of exposure -- though since she's basically done it first, I'm not sure whether it 'counts' so to speak.

Would love some vets to chime in and keep me from doing something rash and stupid that I'd regret later.