I don't think she has thought it through. L told me how much support I would pay and she will not be able to afford it on her own. I don't want to be wanted just for the money, but I guess I will have to figure that out...

Should I tell her I'm thinking about filing or just do it and tell her I'm giving her the space she wants, while protecting both of us?


Me: 55, W: 46
T: 17 M: 15
S: 10
3 S prev M
25 23 21
Unhappy 10/12
Asked to move out 1/14
NILWY 2/14
Sep rooms: 1/14
BD 3/14
W filed 5/14
Trial 12/14


Do the right thing - no reason needed