I think I belong here #3

[praying_in_GA]

Hey, sorry I disappeared for a bit. I have decided to no longer be a stander. Since we are trying to do things 'nicely', he emailed me a preliminary copy of the papers. Nothing signed, served, official yet but just for me to get an idea of what they will say. He and his 21 year old are dating. From what I hear, her parents are questioning her about their relationship (she lives with them and he picks her up for dates).

It's really no big deal to me anymore. I am fine with the divorce. I have realized there is SO much I miss from a good marriage. There is so much I want and he has never given. We were not truly compatible and he isn't willing to make the effort for us to become closer.

So, that's it. I'm no longer attempting to save the marriage. I am letting him go and I am going my way as well. It is what it is.

I TRULY appreciate everyone on this board. You all are amazing people and I don't know where I would be without you.