Hang in there Daring. Yes, that can happen -- I always liked the saying 'it's always darkest before the dawn.' You really don't know what's around that next corner. You still have some things going for the two of you. My H has almost totally disappeared now, so there are very, very few opportunities to interact. You still have those, so that's a good thing. But only you will know when you have truly had enough. I had many days like the one above that you described, and in hindsight, I wished I would have been just a TINY bit more patient, even tho that seems almost impossible sometimes! Not that he deserved my patience! Dig deep -- you can find it if you want to.


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15