Ok here's the deal, people are saying back off and give her space etc. To me this sounds like " go ahead and disrespect me while I sit cuckold and take it." I read a post from Sandi2, whose viewpoint is one I'd very much like to hear about, and she says be strong and confident. WAS has already lost respect for LBS and that is attractive. Contrary to what some may think I value and consider all advice. Sandi and Mach1 in particular. I'm better at reading than following though. How do you guys live with yourselves allowing A to continue while playing nice and sharing a fake marital bed. I'm not mind reading here but if I'm being played I want to know. Dont I still have a reasonable expectation for my lawfully wedded spouse to conduct themselves in a manner that lives up to the law,and vows we took? If they want to be single then they should s**t or get off the pot. Thanks just answered my own question. She was getting up and flushing and I sat her back down. You guys are the best.
Me 49 stunned and lost W 47 ,stunning and my world S 15,better than anyone could ask for T 29 yrs ,M 18. B 4-3-2014 move on separately.4-18-2014- "doesn't want to be M" 5-8-14 " I'm filing for divorce"