My 2 cents.

You need to focus all your energy on yourself and your kids.

You need to make life as easy for you as financially possible.

Make the time to exercise and go get your nails done. Make the time for continued IC. Maybe a massage. Or a housekeeper.

If your H wants a D he should do all the leg work not you - get yourself a good lawyer.

I would encourage your H to get an IC separate from yours but he should be seeing someone.

You are a mom so I know you can thrive through this because of your kids. Your kids will be so proud of you. They know in their heart all you do for their family.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13