Thanks AJM. I wish I could stop interacting with her but now she is insisting on sending my D away 1000 miles with a man who is the most awful person on the planet. Not only that, now she refuses to leave! She wants to "save money" first and when I insisted she still refused saying its her house to. Just goes to show whatever I want, she wants the opposite!
Worse part is that she wants to send her NOW. In a few days! When it comes to her father she is crazy. Now she wants to take back everything she ever said about him because that isn't true any longer. She now is telling me that all the [censored] he did to my D's either never happened or was directed at me and of course now that I'm evil that's fine.
Now she is saying how wrong it was to trust me how she should have known I would be horrible and do horrible things. Now she is even saying bad things about MY parents who have never been anything but kind to her and my D's.
I no longer have expectations, in fact I expect her to do the wrong thing. God must be listening and I hope he can somehow save my D from the s$& storm my W is bringing down on all of us! How my W will be able to handle looking back at what she is doing now IF she ever does come out of this beyond me. She can't handle the small problems we've had over the years without falling into depression. I don't ever see her allowing herself to come to terms with what she is doing now.... She'll just stay in her safe tunnel and keep blaming me. Easier that way.
Thanks again AJM. I needed to hear what you said and I'm trying. I just wish my W would let me take a breath without trying to do something that not just effects me but my D as well.
