So, the texts started again. I dropped the boys over at WAW on saturday at 1pm. I then went out fishing with some friends and didn't return home until 10:00pm. My phone was stored in a dry box on the boat, and I didnt take it out until I got home. I finally looked at my phone and had 3 missed calls and 5 texts from WAW.
The voice mail left at 6:30 was WAW asking if I could give her a call as she had a question about tomorrow (she's taking S10 to Bush Gardens)
Then the text which were from 9:00-10:00pm
9:08 WAW - Hey, been trying to get a hold of you. Can u call me ASAP? 9:30 WAW - Nevermind
10:30 WAW - So clearly you don't want to talk with me, despite my numerous efforts to just a simple question. So now Im texting you to say, please leave S-10 camo shorts in a bag on teh front porch for us to pick up in the morning. He said those were his favorite to wear to bush gardens.
10:32 WAW - All I have are school shorts or his swim shorts (so you must have some of his other play shorts at the house) Anyhow, I agree that those will be comfy him to wear, so pleaes put them out for us to pick up,
10:33 WAW - And for god sakes at lease send a txt back. What if something was actually wrong?
I didn't want to respond last night as my friends stayed over for a drink and we fillet the fish we caught. We had a great time and I didn't want to even reply to WAW and spoil the great day we had.
The shorts she's referring to are Swim Trunks, which she clearly stated she as a pair of. Also S-10 was also wearing a "Comfy" pair of basket ball style shorts when I dropped him off yesterday. So right there she has 2 options besides school shorts.
Im tired of the accusations she's throwing around (you clearly don't want to talk with me). Hell I want more than anything to talk with you. She does not want to talk with me, she needs something from my house.
WAW has no idea what I want or dont want. I want to respond to her stings of text and Let her know Im tired of her telling my what I want or don't want. She is "clearly" speculating and does this to me quite often. In one text she asks for me to call then a 1/2 hour later says never mind, then an hour later stats im avoiding her.
And the "What if something happened" line. Well it didn't, everything was fine and it may never happen. And what if something did happen, would she try and make me feel guilty for not checking my phone? I have no control of the "What If" and really can't worry about it.
Any help in a proper response, or if Im off base would be greatly appreciated.
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14