Hello, I have been posting in Newcomers, but thought I would post here as well. My last thread is:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...065#Post2448065

My DB was in January and my H filed for D two weeks later. I found out he was having an affair in April. His affair was for over a year and he says that it ended in February of this year. I'm still reeling from the information, and H has said at the time I confronted him that he wants to slow D and maybe start MC. He has not mentioned it since and he moved to another state so we only see ech other every few weeks.

I can't seem to get past the lying and cheating. Also the way he treated me during this pat year, does it get easier?


M45 H46
M16 yrs
D17, D10, D7
DB 1-23-2014
H filed D 2-14-2014