New Here and to MLC Sinking Fast

[tadpole1025]

Hi Tears. I usually only post on my thread, but was reading yours and just thought I'd throw this out there:

No matter what you do, even giving him everything he wants, he will likely STILL get angry. MLCers are angry people. Angry at you, themselves, the world....It's just the way it is. That's why it is best for you to have as little contact as possible and detach. THAT has helped me more than anything.

I've been on this board three and a half years and am sometimes still baffled by my XW but......I don't let it get to me like it did in the beginning. It does get easier.

It [censored] to be on this board, but it is the best place to be during this difficult time. Take care.

Tad