I know, but I felt I had not been clear. I refused to be pulled in by his arguments or attempts to pull me in. It was like a nice snake you know is there so you try not to step it. There was this dynamic, where I allowed myself without realising of getting drawn in and taking blame, while he remained the nice blameless one, aka as the victim.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
