So funny, me too. I thought I found just the perfect guy for me, exactly what I needed. 20 years and two kids later it blew up, and I've learned there were red flags all along the way, and part of what drew me to him was dysfunction in me. I'm working to clean all that up now so I don't do it again. I found Codependent No More very enlightening after about the first two chapters.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
