thanks Bklynmom - my gut tells me he's still deep in MLC. his first few visits were dark and depressed, the last couple were more friendly. I don't want to not let him see the dogs however next time he asks perhaps i'll say no and suggest another time. I was trying to be open to a friendship. I wouldn't say his visits were helpful, they do cause some hurt because it's like reopening the wound for me. When I don't see him it helps me detach. I'll let you know how it goes tomorrow. I need to re-read DB even though i'm divorced. My heart tells me leave the door ajar.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
