choosing door #2 - next part in my journey

[BklynMom]

I know how you feel, I too was getting I love yous until the day before the bomb. How the bomb just came out of the clear blue sky.

I would be careful allowing him to visit too much seems like it may help him relieve his guilt but is doing little for you. One thing I learned for the the book is you need to test the waters - maybe his coming over is bringing you guys closer.

Only you will know if this is helpful or hurtful. Trust your gut