thanks GB, feels nice to have that encouragement from you!
I wouldn't say he was quiet, he didn't monster really if that's what you mean. He did but not directed at me, it was more like tantrums directed at work in my presence. We talked all the time, texts and chat throughout the day every day, every single morning he texted me good morning sweetheart or some other cute name. It was really hard to stop getting those. He did that even the day of BD!! I literally had no idea it was coming. Since we don't have kids and he wanted this D so quickly I just figured he'd go dark. He has seen me every few weeks since he moved out because he wanted to drop off the insurance check versus just mailing it. Now that it is done and over I didn't think he'd care about visiting the dogs, they do enjoy his visits. Part of me wonders if he's checking on me, I know I shouldn't wonder that but it's natural to wonder about things


Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs