Just a question to ask yourself, why did you find your H at all attractive when you witnessed how he treated his dad? Did you deny his behavior to yourself? What insecurities did you have that allowed you in some ways to go along with this behavior?

I have realized that I allowed my H to act badly for a long time in various situations and finding out why I allowed it I hope will prevent me from going back to that place with someone else.

Absolutely no family no matter how odd or even degenerate they are wishes that their daughter bring home a man with 3 kids. Trust me the erotic mother writer does not think its a good idea nor does the "criminal" dr. They will prob. stay away from both their families right now, for obvious reasons


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13