Yeah, the Autobahn is not exactly a quiet country road ...
I really liked that you did not care - that is a good sign of detaching, keep on pursuing that...
If you can get to the point of not caring, or perhaps only doing so for his sake, then you are stronger, and that is good. He, believe it or not, does care (short SMS as evidence) I think, but perhaps not yet for the right, good, motives.
If you then can say to yourself what/how you want to be and do it - GAL - and get yourself back, you are on a good, healing path.
The company group I work with hiked SoCal's second highest mountain yesterday - good, but tiring, fun. Will you have a group of people to connect with, perhaps via your new job, in GK? Can you start building connections early?
Gratitude: respectful acknowledgement by my boss.
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
