It's good for you to vent. journal all you can. don't get sucked into her drama. Don't argue with her. Walk away. You can say "I'll get back to you on that" You cannot fix this. You are reacting. You cannot control her you can only control you and your responses. "I'm sorry you feel that way". have you seen a lawyer yet? remember to protect yourself. I'm pretty sure you've read all the resources because I've seen your responses to others including myself. You just have a hard time applying it to your own sitch. The process works, let it. going to a divorce group that meets locally is helpful or an IC. I wish I could offer more advice but I don't have children so I can't. Hang in there, breathe, go for a walk or to a movie, you'll get through this Matt.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs