I quit telling him anything a few weeks ago and went as no contact as possible. He did call d a bit ago and made plans for Thursday, but again did not run it by me. I've let that go until now and I just sent him an email asking him to please set up visitation with our d through me and not d. Fortunately she has nothing pressing at school that day and we don't have plans so it's no a problem this week. But I felt I needed to give him that boundry. It's been over 2 weeks since he's seen her and then to just think he will make it whatever day whenever he wants isn't fair especially during a school day. I don't know what he's thinking. I'm sure that will make him mad, but I don't know why. I've abided by all his wishes, I don't bother him or give him any grief and haven't since he left. He should be more considerate, so if he gets mad oh well.
