Reading all the threads. I'm having some decent days and days that I struggle. Today is a struggle. I have no contact with h except for finances now. He seems fine with that. He has pretty much stopped contact with our d15. He hasn't called her in a week or seen her in 2. That's very hard. Financially he has not kept up his agreement and lied about finances. This payday he needed to keep most of his pay for "doctors visits" (we have insurance) so sorry for me and d that he can't help out more. Great. And then wanted to know how I was doing. I didn't respond. It's only been 3 months and I'm trying not to be too hard on myself but I really hate days like today when I'm feeling so sad and scared. He has pulled away even farther. I guess that makes him happy, to forget his past and move on, or it's part of the mlc. From what I understand it just gets worse. Is that correct that some in mlc are very in contact in the beginning like he was when he first left and then just sort of disappear? I've left him alone from the beginning and only responded when he called and sent texts but since I've backed away from responding to anything except financial issues or d he has stopped also. But I had to stop because he was doing a lot of cake eating and telling me how I should be happy and find someone new and how mad it makes him that I don't and how we should just be friends, but when I would go out or not answer him right away I'd get the third degree or our poor d would. I'm so confused.
