Originally Posted By: labug
What did you actually say to her (xgf)?



Basically that it was nice hearing from her, her offer to have me come visit made me feel good, and I appreciated the invite but that if I accepted it would most likely kill any chance of saving my marriage, and saving my marriage was still my intent/plan/goal.


H: 43
W: 37
M: 11 years
T: 12 years
S: 11
D: 8
ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14
MC started: 9/22/14
Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14
Piecing: 10/20/14