I had to laugh when I heard my W say... "I wasn't looking for XXXXX... It just happened..."
Oh? Really? It just happened that he came over to house how many times? You just happened to stop by his place? You know, the place 12 miles away from the house...
No. These are all decisions that the two of them made. Stumps made some decisions here or otherwise the offer never would have came. This offer didn't just happen.
Geez... I definitely see where you're coming from but... Feel like that's a little unfair. Or, in my particular case not quite accurate. As far as your question as to why I would even consider it... I guess because even with all the 180s/GALing, I'm still strongly feeling the absence of affection in my life, not even necessarily sex but the physicality that goes with it. And so when someone comes along and offers some--no matter how fleeting or shallow... It's difficult. That's all. It just conjures up tons of mixed feelings.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
