Sobbering up this morning. BIL came over last night and brought drinks. Haven't talked to him much in the last several months. Don't think he knew what to say. Anyhow, it was an interesting night of conversation. Didn't realize but it sounds like his M is in danger too and he needed to talk more than I did. We did end up talking about W a good bit. He has no interest in getting involved and I said that was a good thing and why I would be willing to talk to him about it because he would not try to pressure her. BIL and W are extremely close and probably hang out several times a week. Anyhow, it went well with one of my 180's which is to be more social. Especially with family. I've always been one of those stay home guys who doesn't really want to go anywhere on the weekends. BIL also appears to have a drinking problem, says he is going to quit but really doesn't 'want' to so he just keeps on doing it heavily every weekend. I think I'm going to try to help him with it. No idea how though...
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10
