Dav, yeah, it's a rollercoaster for sure. Stay strong. Stay your course. Don't let her see you being desperate to be with her. Keep cool. keep your distance. So true that when you retreat she comes forward. My favourite one is: be the man only a fool would leave. I live by that and I think my WAW is coming home soon. Still needs some work but she suggested MC today and she wants to go away with me for a week to get away from the world and see if we want to give it another go. Wow! My sitch has turned around in the past 2 weeks and I'm thrilled. But I really need to curb my enthusiasm and keep a cool demeanor as it's still a very tentative and fragile sitch. I keep reading DR and the LRT. It keeps me focused and prevents me from acting like a love sick pup. At least some of the time. It is hard not to want to dive back in before there's true remorse shown.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014