thank you thank you for allowing me to ask that on your thread and for the great answers!
No problem TL!
So, I guess H is serious about moving out from OW's as he showed up here with a pick up load and asked if he could store it here until he finds his own place. Said he and OW have been sleeping in separate bedrooms for 2 weeks and have not really talked to each other for 4 days. It all started going downhill when the assault thing happened. It seems she blames H for the fight and he is not liking that at all.
He suggested that if graduation wasn't going on this weekend we should go out for a drink or to a movie. D15 was just in the other room so I didn't want to say too much. Just agreed that it would not be a good weekend for that.
I want to STRESS that I am NOT getting my hopes up and am NOT falling for this. I know he has a long ways to go and so do I before we can even consider anything as far as R. I know that he is still lying about some things. And, I do feel that he would not be wanting to come home if things were going better with OW. Just wanted to get this "on paper" for now.
Also, his pretrial court date got continued to the end of June! This is going to drag out for awhile. Gives me time to consult an L on what I can do to protect myself if the judge orders H pay restitution.
BD-Aug 2009 OW Confirmed H moves out Dec 2009 D filed by H-Mar 2010 H asks to come home April 2011 BD AGAIN 1-15-2014! H seeing FOW! H ran away again! 1-18-2014
