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Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks BrightFuture #2453168 05/17/14 12:13 AM
Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 242 Michigan L LiveNow OP Member
OP LiveNow Member L Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 242 Michigan	BF, I hope those fires are not too close to your house! I have been hearing about them on the news, I think. Well, I finally called 4 landscaping companies about lawn cutting, and mulch delivery/installation. Getting 2 estimates currently. No sooner do I do that than H e-mails, saying he is (finally) coming Monday during the day to cut and fertilize the lawn. 'Bout time. It looks awful. Embarrassing. (I will not see him. I'll be at work.) Sad. This is another thing he was always so particular about - not anymore. Then he proceeds to say he needs to do some work on the outside of our vacation home. Why do I care? Anyway, feeling more detached today, and feeling pretty ok. My counselor (who has spoken with H separately a few times) feels he might keep procrastinating for a while. I'm really thinking he's pretty much done doing that (it's almost a year) and will soon take some action (like he says). But, then again, over the past 6 or so years (when all this MLC began brewing) he has said 'I'm gonna...' about a zillion times, about a whole bunch of things, and never did any of them. <Sigh> Life goes on, with or without him. I do feel a little relieved, I have to admit, not walking on eggshells anymore, every day. That I can really FEEL now -- the difference. Well, at least the lawn will be cut next week. I guess that's good, right? Still have to have mulch delivered and installed. I'm not doing 15 yards by myself! Happy weekend, everyone. Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15

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New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/04/14 01:30 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Cadet	04/04/14 10:59 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Wonka	04/04/14 11:25 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/06/14 11:39 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/06/14 11:45 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	TL72*	04/07/14 04:15 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Wonka	04/07/14 04:18 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	owl777	04/07/14 06:20 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/07/14 10:02 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	TL72*	04/08/14 03:20 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BklynMom	04/09/14 12:41 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/09/14 12:45 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	TL72*	04/09/14 01:04 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/09/14 11:40 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	mleigh4	04/10/14 01:16 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	04/10/14 09:44 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/10/14 09:58 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	job	04/10/14 10:15 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/11/14 07:54 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/12/14 01:36 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/13/14 07:22 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/13/14 07:49 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	job	04/13/14 08:55 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	scooby	04/13/14 09:18 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/14/14 12:09 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/14/14 10:00 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/15/14 10:33 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/17/14 04:01 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/17/14 10:30 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	scooby	04/17/14 11:21 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	04/18/14 12:07 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/18/14 12:44 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/18/14 10:23 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/19/14 01:16 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	scooby	04/19/14 05:18 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/20/14 01:04 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/25/14 12:50 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	kml	04/25/14 12:59 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	praying_in_GA	04/25/14 05:36 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/08/14 04:16 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/08/14 11:49 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	job	05/09/14 11:58 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/13/14 01:17 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/14/14 02:00 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	TL72*	05/14/14 03:18 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Georgiabelle	05/14/14 03:32 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/15/14 01:55 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/15/14 01:57 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	05/15/14 02:59 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/17/14 12:13 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	daring	05/19/14 12:44 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Ggrass	05/19/14 01:01 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/20/14 02:18 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/20/14 04:11 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/20/14 08:24 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	owl777	05/20/14 08:50 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/20/14 09:20 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/23/14 12:16 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/26/14 01:51 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	06/10/14 01:21 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	07/27/14 10:47 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	beatrice	07/28/14 08:24 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Shining	07/28/14 08:17 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	07/28/14 11:53 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	beatrice	07/29/14 09:08 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	07/29/14 11:42 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Shining	07/30/14 01:16 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	07/30/14 01:24 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	07/30/14 02:33 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Shining	07/30/14 06:25 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	07/30/14 02:47 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/01/14 12:10 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	08/01/14 01:16 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/01/14 09:47 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	08/01/14 10:07 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/01/14 10:27 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	08/02/14 01:45 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/04/14 12:33 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	T-boned	08/05/14 06:19 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	08/06/14 02:00 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/07/14 01:59 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	08/08/14 02:11 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/12/14 01:23 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Matt165	08/12/14 01:48 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	beatrice	08/12/14 07:39 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/13/14 02:02 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/19/14 02:29 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	job	08/19/14 12:23 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/20/14 01:14 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	HopeTex	08/20/14 09:26 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/30/14 01:55 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Mighty	08/30/14 04:06 AM
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Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Georgiabelle	08/30/14 04:29 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/30/14 11:18 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Nitty	08/31/14 05:58 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	09/03/14 12:40 AM

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