I tend to agree with snsouth. It's almost like he's trying to force you to "accept responsibility" or something. As far as the ML thing. After my W started to pull away and before I knew that she wanted a S our sex life started to fade away. I remember we ML one night and that was it until the bomb dropped. Some time after the bomb I said something about wishing that I knew that was the last time. I would have memorized everything about it. Well, about a week or so later guess what? We ML. Next thing I know I'm out the door and she's telling me that she doesn't miss me. I guess that was pity sex.
I guess I tell you that to say that not everyone views ML the same. I know men typically will want it no matter what the situation. I think that it's positive that he could put the A behind him enough to do that. That would be difficult for me at least at first. So it may be a positive but I wouldn't dwell on it too much.
Not that I have any idea what I'm talking about. Just my humble opinion.
