Thank you so much suddenly & snsouth. .My H and I had our big talk this morning about finances..He has a proposed settlement..$$ is very important to him so I knew this was something he took along time to figure out. I felt he almost wants to give me more than I deserve.I agreed with everything and then he talked about his feelings a little more. He feels I do not deserve the title of his wife for what I have done.Also he said I have not taken responsibility for my actions.
.He said this is the path he has laid out to follow..he has said several times that maybe in the end after everything is written up he may not have it finalized(he has said that several times and I am not sure how to take it). SO of course I did try to change the mood and it did work (ML)..but I am not sure how to digest all this..he acts like he wants a D but yet wants to ML?????Help me with this!! I am doing the right thing here?? As for counseling..we are going to MC tommorrow ..he said he is just going to help me come out of denial..he is going for me..he doesn't think he needs any help.. He would never go to a workshop etc..I may have to start posting on surviving the big D..sigh
