Please I would love for a vet to weigh in on this situation too. I really need some honest to goodness 2x4's to my face right now to help me think clearly.
Originally Posted By: Corbean
I guess if I'm being honest with myself and you, then what scares me the most is that her entire family knows about it and all of her friends. There is no voice of reason in her life right now. If they are all ok with her doing this, then what chance is there really of us ever being able to work things out?
My H filed and EVERYONE knew about it. That case was dismissed. He's filed again, but it already wavering. That said, I'm not sure I will waver in pushing it through. I never wanted a divorce, I do not right now, but who is to say I won't in a month or two?
I have a LOT going for me right now. I know I'm smart, funny, attractive, in shape and have one of the coolest jobs on the planet which is a great conversation starter. It wouldn't take me any time at all to find dates, but I have zero interest in that right now. For now, I'm content to getting back to my hobbies without him controlling me and telling me that I cannot go.
Do you have any hobbies at all? You have kids. Mine takes up a TON of my time. I would imagine yours do as well. At night, do some sort of exercise program. See if someone is selling P90X or similar cheap. After doing those, and getting a shower, read a book and it's bedtime. Immerse yourself in things to where you literally have NO TIME to think about it and are exhausted from GAL-ing at the end of the day.
It's working for me.
Last edited by LongRoad06; 05/16/1408:10 PM.
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?
