Luvcats, As the betrayed whose wife wants me back I can offer you some advice. Your H needs to come to terms with what he is feeling. He may not be ready yet but there is a difference between being hurt and having your pride and ego damaged. Feeling hurt is something that needs to be processed but pride and ego get in the way. Your H just needs some time to process. In the meantime, anything you can do to reassure him that you love him and that it was a BIG mistake and it will NEVER happen again and that you take responsibility for your choices instead of blaming the relationship helps. This is my perspective - I'm not going home anytime soon until I can trust my W again. But the reassurance helps me with my trust issues and I do believe that in time I will be able to trust again. SN
