Wife doesn't feel it... (Part 2)

[Georgiabelle]

Corbean,

I think it's always a good idea to consult a L. It never hurts to know your rights and find out what various scenarios may be. It may help you feel better about any decisions you make.


Only you can decide what you think of your w and how you want to proceed. Wil filing heal you? Will it make you feel better? Probably not. What is does done look like to you? You do have kids. Much to even my own chagrin, none of us have a crystal ball. It sounds like you need to work on being more assertive-for you. Think about what you what.

In regards to what other peeps think, I'm so guilty of feeling like I look like an idiot. I could relay stories here but what I realized is that while I'm a work in progress, I'm okay with working on me. Yes, some scenarios made me *think* I looked foolish to h's coworkers, I am a good person. What *they* think based on what someone else told them doesn't really matter. Just stings a bit or hurts the ego.

I know it's difficult but take the focus off your w. She's not the same w you married. Focus on you and your kids. You cannot change or fix her.