First off, I agree with you about protecting your kids. Talk to the lawyer about for sure.
Second, you are an emotional time bomb right (I am too). All of the advice I've seen and read about mentions staying calm and not REACTING. Wait until you start to feel balanced, really balanced.
You may feel balanced right now but I also notice your mood changes like the wind every day. Be aware of that.
Yes, your wife is being very disrespectful. But you often talk about forgiveness and your belief in God. What would God say to you if you were to have a conversation with him?
Would he say "Quick! Divorce her Corbean! She's cheating!"?
