Hello. I read all your post. Hang in there. You mentioned repeatedly how upset you're about the FB situation. I'm saying this to those I post with, "Stop FB" if you can't handle the negative part of this social media. That's part of your challenges that you can change. I'm not anti social media, but when people concentrate on what is being said and posted on FB, rather than real conversations, and interactions, it's a waste of energy and shouldn't be part of our lives. He's obviously telling you in a blatant way that he wants to be single and doesn't want to tell you to your face what is really going on. And that is where you're at this time, but the truth will come out eventually. It most of the time does. Unfortunately, lots of people are using FB to do exactly what you experienced. What a cop out. If this were me, I would tell him I decided FB isn't a good communication tool for my Rs. This would maybe be a difficult stand for you, but make a statement to the girls that it's unkind to communicate that way. This is what FB does to R and hurts the innocent or those who use it for the fluffy, wonderful R stuff, like family pics, etc. All things can be used as weapons and FB can be one of the worst. People find out about horrible things about each other and employers fire people, etc. That's the way I see it. If you expose yourself to it, be prepared to be bombarded with the nasty stuff too.
