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I have a question for all you veteran DBers..Is leaving cards or notes a no-no? the reason I ask is that my H's pride & ego are pretty hurt..After we ML last week I left a little card on his computer and he later said thank you..I didn't know if this would help or does the pride & ego repair have to come from within??help from any men out there on this...



LC, I don't know if I'm objective enough to give you any valuable advice. The way I feel right now, if my W broke off the A and told me she wanted to work on the M I would be there in a New York minute. I would be flattered by a card or a simple note since I think that this might be my love language.

Your husband may be at a different place than I am. I am a very sensitive and emotional person so my love for my W appears to be stronger than my pride or ego. I started to give you my opinion about the lingerie thing but it's too soon for me. Sorry, can't keep from missing my W and the intimacy that we once shared. I'm sure some old timers here can help you with this.

Thanks for posting on my thread. Stop by anytime. Good luck.

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