Wife doesn't feel it... (Part 2)

[Corbean]

Well, right now she doesn't have a job, a car, or a place to stay besides her parents. All of her energy is going into her relationship with the OM. I'm meeting with a L on Monday to discuss my rights etc. And to go ahead and file for a temporary custody agreement that says I will have custody of the children until she has all of the above taken care of and stability. I'm sure it will piss her off and she'll think I'm being vindictive, but it's making sure my kids are well taken care of. My daughter is special needs and need her therapy and care. I will tell her that my goal isn't to make her mad, but to help her get stabalized before she has to take care of the kids also.

I am torn on whether I should tell her I'm doing this before I do it, or just do it. However, after that is taken care of I plan to file for D soon after that. It's not to get a reaction or anything, I just genuinely feel that the M is over.

I'm not giving up complete hope, because God can work miracles and I am going to very seriously focus on me and becoming the best me I can and maybe she'll see that changes and peace that I'm finding and want it for herself one day, but as it stands to me our M is over.