Originally Posted By: Thornton
I realize that my thoughts are driving my emotions as Mach pointed out to me yesterday. But sometimes they get the better of me.


Again with the "buts" ???

Once you realize that this type of thinking is happening, the sooner that you can change the patterns that cause them.

And if the "but" gives you an excuse ??

Then you will always allow it to happen...

When you think differently, then you will BE different....


Originally Posted By: Thornton

Something else I've thought of is that my WAW and I have nothing that binds us or forces communication. We have no bills, no kids together, no reason to talk. There's no way I will be able to show her my changes once I begin to change.


Excuse me ??

Miss Nomer ???

Can you help me with my DB homework ???


There will be plenty of chances for contact....relax


So before you start painting a list of your changes on a Leopard Speedo and do laps around her office building.....

Just focus on the changes, before you wanna show them off...