Like I said earlier though, SHE is still making those choices...
The reasons why she is making them could come from a variety of places, and if MLC holds true ?
Then I would assume that it isn't your FIL that is telling her to make them, as much as it is that just the mere presence of him is influencing those choices...
Something that might help you right now...
Try to stop thinking in terms of her being your wife, because right now ? She really isn't the person that you have known in the past....
Try to stop expecting her to make different choices, when clearly, she hasn't shown anything different that not wanting to be in the relationship...
Seldom does one have a rational conversation with an irrational person....
Matt....
You are still very early into this process. What you have seen so far is just the tip of the Iceberg.
It WILL get much uglier, before it can become pretty again...
