3 Months In and Feeling...More Aware

[JennD]

So H just called to ask if I had plans tonight. No, not because he wanted to take me out! Because he wanted to see if i was going to be home after the girls go to be so he could go rock climbing.

I did confirm with him on Wednesday that he was here this weekend with the girls cause I wanted to make plans. He said yes.

When he call just now, I said yes I have plans tonight and that I did ask him earlier this week. He said no big deal - what about the rest of the weekend? I said, nicely - I feel like you are getting the best of both worlds here. You are supposed to be here this weekend. When you are away, I have the the girls, its all me. Again he said no big deal.

So now i HAVE to have plans tonight. Movies maybe.

Do I tell him that I can adjust my "plans" on Saturday or Sunday so he can go? Or do I hold strong and leave it as is?

(In this area, it was so much easier when we were a team and we worked together...)